October 27, 2013
Dear Prayer Friends,
Well, we had parent conferences this week, and in some ways
it was like conferences we had with parents three decades ago and in other
ways, far, far different. We were given a schedule, but we had no idea who
would show up: a grandparent, a step-parent, an adoptive parent, or a whole
blended family. On the whole, the teachers’ opinions were honored, and we were
treated respectfully.
Look! We made a chicken coop. |
And we came away with a wealth of information that should
help us to understand our students better and encourage us.
As we knew, these children come from
unfathomable circumstances. Moms admitted that they have their youngest
children here because they don’t want to make the same “mistakes” they made
with the older ones.
In
one class, only one of the girls has a mom.
Our
youngest student just turned six this week.
Students
can’t concentrate because they are allowed to watch all the TV they want or
play video games all day when they are at home.
Children
have been allowed to raise themselves: (so they rebel at our authority).
Children
are bounced around to live with different people or are stressed because others
have been removed from their families.
Several
children have serious language deficits probably due to understanding neither Navajo
nor English spoken in the home during language formation time.
One
boy saw his mother being stabbed by one boyfriend and dumped out of the car by
another. Most of the children have witnessed domestic violence.
A
short boy who has serious anger issues had health problems as a youngster, which
explains his stature and gaps in his education.
Moms
admitted to going to Christian church and traditional Navajo ceremonies.
One
boy insists that his adoptive parents pray before meals. (They are not
Christians.) He also makes his sister write Bible verses when she acts up at
home, which is a consequence he is quite familiar with.
One
girl has totally turned around her behavior and study habits, to the parents’
deep pleasure.
One
parent assured us that their children would be here for the duration because of
the love and attention we lavish on her children.
One
parent cried when I prayed for her. I’m not sure anyone has prayed aloud for
her and her child before.
Parents
are concerned about their child’s academic progress and are grateful that they
are in a safe and loving environment.
Thank you for your prayers for our conferences. The Lord
answered in wonderful ways.
The Everetts
Standin' on the corner of Winslow, Arizona... |